Anna Ellington - “Pharrah13″

A true reader will NOT talk to you about their own life experiences in relationship to you. If you ask fine, anything else is trying to waste your money…bottom line, if you feel someone is stalling and trying to waste your money?… they probably are!!! Unless you ask, do you really need 10 minutes of explaining HOW a person ‘reads’ for you? Unless you are getting a lesson on learning the tarot cards, do you NEED to know what the card is they turn over and the ‘textbook’ meaning? Do you really need to hear 10 minutes of how ‘Ask Reader So and So’ went through exactly what you are and how THEY dealt with it? Again, unless you ask, it is YOUR dollar they are wasting. If they want to tell their life stories, maybe they need to write a book. This applies more to the telephone psychic world as there you are more than likely paying by the minute…if of course you paying a flat fee for a reading then the time is not an issue and it can be WONDERFUL to hear of your readers personal experiences. The OTHER major reason, in my opinion, it is not always advisable to have someone who is ‘chatty’? They can too easily ‘cloud’ your reading with their personal OPINIONS. Others experiences as well as my own with this type of reader has taught me that when you get a reader that likes to talk about themselves, it is likely your reading is NOT coming from a ‘higher’ source.

EVERYBODY has ‘psychic ability’ we are all born with it. it does NOT mean that we can all do readings for others. It is the readers that allow to much of their own EGOS to influence their readings that can cause serious damage to seekers by influencing free will and choice. They will tell you HOW, WHEN and WHY you should DO something according to their own opinion, not according to Spirit. When I use the word ego, I refer to anybody who reads from anywhere other than strictly the SPIRITUAL perspective. Ego drives the readers who do if for PROFIT first and all other reasons SECOND.. even if the second reason IS to HELP. This does not mean a ‘psychic’ does not DESERVE to make a living and even a good one, like anyone else, BUT…if they become driven by the profit or the power over others first, they are no longer true to their gift.

Many ‘psychics’ start out with the highest intentions, but unfortunately many are also swept away by the power and control they can start to have over others. People turn to them and their ‘gift’ and they can easily be convinced by their own egos that it is THEY that are NEEDED and revered and forget that their gift is GOD given. It can be hard to recognize these people because they themselves do not always recognize that they have lost sight of the true purpose and will JUSTIFY their wrongs even to themselves.

The best advice I can give on this is if you hear….’you SHOULD’… ‘I am telling you, you HAVE TO’..’if you don’t listen to ME’….’you will be SORRY if you don’t'…. ‘you must TRUST ME’…. “I promise you it will happen”…”I GUARANTEE it will happen”…”This is MY experience” (so it has to be yours?) or anything else that sounds EGO based coming from a psychic advisor…choose a more ethical psychic!!